When You See the Train Coming...
28 februari 2018
and you are standing in the middle of the tracks...
'I knew that meeting was going to be a disaster', my client said.
'So what did you do?', I asked.
His stunned silence was telling me had done nothing to prevent the disaster.
'It wasn't my meeting', he added after a while.
This kind, well meaning, smart and professional person in front of me, had correctly predicted that he and a bunch of his colleagues were about to have a meeting that would be a disaster: with a vague but sensitive topic, no clear agenda, and a number of people around the table who would more than likely either end up fighting or saying nothing at all. And he did - nothing. Just like his colleagues. Everyone knew how it would be, nobody did anything - nobody felt it was their responsibility. And so everybody willingly sacrificed two hours of their valuable time in an uncomfortable meeting, with no real results - other than collective frustration.
I've been there, we've all been there. We are all so busy doing those things that are our responsibility, that we don't want to take on any more. We don't have the time, or the energy.
But what if we did? What if, next time 'you see the train coming', you do get off the tracks and something about it?
Do you rather sit and wait for the train to crash? Or do you prefer clearing the tracks? Take ownership to make things better?
There is always something you can do to make things better. Do it. Do it now. Don’t wait from someone else to do it for you. Putting yourself in the drivers’ seat gives you positive energy. And that can be contagious.
It's a choice. Every time.
#ownership #dailychoice #coreprinciples #thetrainiscomingContacteer ons